Healing and wellness have long played a central role in the life of Elizabeth Glenn-Bottari, executive director of the Wellness Center at Queen of the Valley Hospital in Napa. A registered nurse and certified rehabilitation specialist, she says, “My lifelong passion is to advocate for those in need, especially those with physical challenges. My spirit is lifted by offering hope to those in crisis due to a catastrophic illness or injury.”
Glenn-Bottari came to the North Bay in 1997 from Massachusetts, where she’d lived since infancy. “My husband is a native of Northern California,” she explains. “I moved four months after we married.
“The physical transition was very easy. However, emotionally there remain challenges. My life was in New England—my family and friends. I miss them all very much. It was, and continues to be, interesting to me to learn about the cultures within the communities here in California. I was told about the microclimates, but the real ‘a-ha’ has been to learn about the microcultures. I enjoy the diversities and styles.”
Do you have a big family?
I have a perfect family. My parents, grandmother, sisters and brother live in the Northeast. My oldest daughter and grandchildren also live in Massachusetts, and my youngest daughter lives in San Francisco. I have three beautiful stepchildren who live in the area. My family is the biggest blessing in my life.
Are you a good patient?
Absolutely not. I’m a terrible patient. I hate injections; I hate people touching me—especially my legs. I get cranky if I’m not comfortable and I love quiet at night.
Do you play a sport?
I don’t play an organized sport. However, I love walking, hiking and being outdoors. I especially love being on the beach.
Do you have a pet peeve?
I despise gossip and needless criticism of others.
Growing up, what was your favorite fairy tale and why?
Cinderella. I appreciated her commitment to family regardless of how she was treated. I also admire the way she handled herself with integrity and honor. She followed her heart and spirit. I love the words in the song she sings in the movie, “In my own little corner, in my own little world, I can be whatever I want to be.” She became exactly what she wanted to be. I’ve thought of those words on a few occasions in my life, and I’m always able to smile.
If you could go back in time, what year or era would you visit?
To the 1950s. I love the dress.
If you could not fail, what would you do?
I would teach others about the magic of knowing.
If you had to sing a karaoke song, what would it be?
“The Wind Beneath My Wings”
If you were unlimited by money, where would you spend a vacation?
I would travel to all the beaches in the world and enjoy watching sunrises and sunsets by the water.
Is there a motto that sums up your management style?
Not a motto, but a definition of leadership by Joseph Rost: “Leadership is an influential relationship among leaders and followers who intend real change that reflect mutual purpose.”
What are your friendships based on?
The values of trust and respect for each other…and the ability to laugh loudly!
What childhood dream has come true for you?
Being a mom to my children, becoming a registered nurse and living in California. I know the blessings I have.
What’s the best bargain you’ve ever found?
I bought a beautiful red coat in San Francisco that I now wear every year during the holidays.
What’s something you should throw away but can’t?
My size four jeans. They fit me perfectly 10 years ago, and I’d like to wear them one more time.
What’s the most interesting country you’ve been to?
Cancun, Mexico. I loved the weather, the water and the people.
Which word or phrase do your overuse most?
“It is what it is.”
What’s one question you’re asking yourself these days?
Where’s the time going? It seems the days go by more quickly each year. It’s frightening.
What’s your favorite book?
I love all books about Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis. I’m currently reading What Would Jackie Do?
What has been your proudest career achievement?
My career has taught me that once someone embraces hope and belief, anything is possible. Throughout my career, I’ve seen patients and families go from sickness and despair to a place of wellness.
What’s your strongest sense?
Intuition